This is a follow on post from my post called Ask How (Don’t say No). Sometimes in some situations it makes more sense to Ask Why to increase understanding.
Sometimes we find ourselves in a passionate conversation about a topic. Someone says something, perhaps in a strident tone, this can force a reaction from others that implies that what has been said is wrong. The response can stop conversation dead in it’s tracks as processing of the remarks take place.
Now a facilitator can help keep the conversation going and relieve the tension and let the point carry on to it’s final conclusion. We don’t have a facilitator all the time though, so we can train ourselves to react quickly still but thoughtfully as well.
I suggest the first response is ‘Why?’, ‘Why do you say that?’ This could help create a response that helps the person retrieve an important item that adds further context. Sometimes excitement causes that person to forget to mention that important piece of context. Asking Why is an Open Question and keeps the conversation going rather than perhaps escalating into an out and out disagreement.
I want to tell you all about a fantastic educational program that is running in Western Australia called Just Start It. It teaches young people about lean startup by actually do it.
They learn to take an idea and bring it to market, pivoting to correct any wrong assumptions along the way from feedback they gain for their real products from real customers.
This year was the first year that the program ran with 11 schools taking part and some fantastic entries being created like the Beyond Bullying and Numbox applications.
Next year, Program Leader, Lainey Wesier is looking to take the program further and introduce it to more kids next year. You know in the future we can’t rely on a generation of job dependents, we want our kids to be creating the opportunities of tomorrow in the classroom. What a great life experience and a great way to kickstart life! This can only be motivational 🙂 They build something and build important life skills along the way.
But Lainey, her team and our next generation can’t do this by themselves. They need help also in the form of dollars. Yes this sort of thing just doesn’t happen out of free will – there is a lot of that already been given out. Just Start It have a crowd funding campaign underway and they are looking for your help. Visit the crowd funding site and give what you can in an investment for the future, a future that will see your sponsorship deliver benefits in so many ways for our next generation and also for yourself.
Just Start It – Yes Lets make it happen!
Visit the site to find out more and hopefully become a sponsor.